One cardinal principle in parenting – a dysregulated parent cannot regulate a child. By regulation, I mean the ability to be present, attentive, attuned and responsive to the needs of the child.
safe stable nurturing relationships
Infant mental health – Part II
To optimize the development and well-being of our children, the physical health and the mental health must be considered at every step.
Infant mental health – Part I
Of all the things that we do in society, infant mental health is the most crucial of all.
More alike than different
Living with artificial differences can be healthy so long we understand our commonality and embrace our humanity.
LEGOs – Why? Regulation
In retirement, I have found a “happy place” building LEGO sets. It helps me regulate.
Conscious parenting – Basic tools
Instruction, engagement, and involvement are mandatory elements of the process that is parenting beyond the basic nurturing of our children.




